Part 3 ..... The Do's and Don'ts when Our Children are Traveling the Road of Infertility or Adoption
Who doesn't like a to do list, or a top 10 things to remember list? For the free spirited soul, this would probably not be your favorite thing. But for me, the type A, get it done gal, I love lists! I don't always follow them, or accomplish all that they suggest, but I cherish well thought out plans of action. How does this parlay into what we should and should not say to our children as they go down their road of infertility and/or adoption? Do you ever wish you had a "how to" manual on how to say and do the right thing? In ALL circumstances? We do have that manual; it's called the Bible. But with so many chapters, verses, stories, and complicated passages, how can you know what is for you in this particular instance? A list such as this requires lots of input, prayer, and practicality. So, in an effort to help things along, here we go: 1. At the first conversation about their situation, listen more, talk less. Our role is to be compassionate and